According to sexperts and educators, bisexual monogamy is.
As such, a lot ofbicurious and bisexual folksslide into my DMs to ask for advice.
The most common question I receive?
I think I might be bi…but Im in a monogamous relationship.
What should I do?
The implication being that many believe bisexual monogamy to be impossible, and thats very much not the case.
Gabrielle Alexa Noel is a bisexual advocate, founder of Bi Girls Club, and author of the forthcoming book, “How To Live With the Internet and Not Let It Ruin Your Life.”
In fact, not only is it entirelypossibleto explore your sexual identity while youre in a relationshipits actually recommended.
And thats a losing situation for you and any partners you may have,in any relationship structure.
So, how can you go about the sexploration without putting your current monogamous union at risk?
Keep reading for expert tips.
Below, experts share 10 strategies for exploring bisexual monogamy
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Withholding information from your partner can intensify the anxiety that they may react poorly.
And, who knows?
Maybe your partner is also interested in exploring their own sexuality.
You dont need to hook up with a bunch of people to explore your sexuality.
Gabrielle Alexa Noel is a bisexual advocate, founder of Bi Girls Club, and author of the forthcoming book, “How To Live With the Internet and Not Let It Ruin Your Life.”
It doesnt make you selfish.
You could also read books together aboutopening your relationship.
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If while doing so, your mind wanders to the thought of youtastingyour college roommate?
If you begin dreaming ofstrapping onfor your hot, out co-worker?
Enjoying queer porn doesnt necessarily mean youre queer, says queer sex educatorAndy Duran, education director forGood Vibrations.
But it may teach you about some sex acts you want to learn more about.
They recommend the following journal prompts:
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