Looking to reinvent your partnered or solo sex routine?

But thats certainly not the only way to add some spice to your sex routine.

you’re free to also change up the literalwaythat youre having sex.

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This is why some people might blurt out I love you during penetrative sex, says Dr. Tara.

11 sexual penetration techniques to try for boundless pleasure

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Pairing

ing focuses on different ways to stimulate the clitoris during penetration.

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The penis-owner can literally feel your PC muscles squeezing their penis if you both stay still and you squeeze.

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This method also works with a toy or penis, or even during oral sex.

Flexing

Put thosekegels to work!

Flexing is a penetration technique that involves squeezing the vaginal muscles as if to egg on an orgasm.

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And, heads up: Sometimes this can lead to an orgasm lasting longer.

This motion with the vulva can lead to a slow-build orgasm, says Dr. Allison.

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former research scientist at OMGyes

What is The Missionary Sex Position?

To reap the full benefits of angling, consider getting yourself asex pillow.

Adding

Adding is about, well, adding into the vagina to provide a sense of fullness.

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you might accomplish this with digital penetration, by adding additional fingers, orby using compatible toys.

Deep end

Deep-ending refers to reaching a vulva-owners cervix.

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Penetration Techniques

Why cant I have penetrative sex?

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It might be difficult to have penetrative sex due to your unique anatomy.

Why does penetration hurt?

Easing the toy or penis in slowly can also help minimize pain, says Dr. Cobb.

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Dr. Tara adds that for some people, pain with penetration can be psychological.

In this case, seeking the support of asex therapistcan be of major help.

Can you bleed if your partner goes too deep during penetration?

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Deep penetration can result in bleeding if the vaginal or vulvar tissue is torn, says Dr. Cobb.

Even microtears can cause discharge to have a light blood tinge, she says.

What does someone feel when you hit their cervix?

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As for whether its dangerous to hit someones cervix?

Dr. Cobb says a bump or even a bruise isnt dangerous, unless its during a high-risk pregnancy.

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