What can we do to elongate our intimate sessions in such a way that we both climax?
And is it possible for us to work toward climaxing together?
Answer
Many people share that they wish their sex sessions lasted longer.
The good news is there arelotsof ways to create satisfying sexual experiences in both short and longer sessions.
It is important to mention, however, that performance anxiety is a real thing.
Stress about outlasting your partner can lead to difficulty staying aroused orenjoying the moment.
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Set pleasure goals
You and your partner both have the right to experience incredibly pleasing consensual orgasms.
Also, focus on ensuring you both finish period before focusing on doing so at the same time.
Guide him until he have a very good sense of how you like to orgasm.
you’re free to eventually enjoy multiple orgasms if you get used to going back and forth.
It helps to think of your arousal on a scale of one to 10.
Your sexual energy is that warm, tingly feeling that builds in your body as you get aroused.
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During sex, share with each other what number you feel.
One of your first goals is to identify when you are in a seven, or moderate, range.
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Introduce an arousal serum
Your inability to reach a climax may not necessarily be related to your partner.
It could be that you need assistance becoming or staying aroused during your session.
They can help reduce sexual anxiety and help sex feel more pleasurable.
Introduce sensual elements into your sessions and focus on how they feel.
Things like silk sheets, a scented candle or sensual music can elevate your overall sensory experience.
If you would like to orgasm at similar times, go back to my recommendation on sexual energy.
Do you both feel calm there?
You both cant be in the mood if you are distracted or feeling ignored.
Ideally, both of you should meet there after unplugging from work and stressors.
It is also important to feel prepared and motivated coming into that space.
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