Learn the best tips for long distance sex.
Experts share tips to make long distance sex for a fulfilling long distance relationship.
That said, intimacy in a relationship is an ongoing processno matter how convenient staying in touch can be.
Why is intimacy important in a relationship?
And intimacy can look different for those in a long-distance relationship.
Is it normal for long-distance couples to have phone sex?
staff sexologist and educator atGood Vibrations
Some long-distance couples have phone sex, and some dont!
Both options are normal, explains relationship and intimacy coachJodie Milton.
How can I be intimate without sex in a long-distance relationship?
Its totally possible to be intimate without sex in a long-distance relationship.
For a start, its helpful to redefine what sex is and the purpose behind it, Milton says.
For a start, its helpful to redefine what sex is and the purpose behind it.
If long-distance sexual intimacy feels uncomfortable, focus on deepening your emotional intimacy, Milton suggests.
Tell your partner what you appreciate about them and why.
Share your inner thoughts and feelings with them as a way of letting them in.
staff sexologist and educator atGood Vibrations
Get emotionally naked by letting them see the real you, she says.
How do you handle long-distance sex?
Below are three things youll want to keep in mind before having long-distance sex.
What is each partner comfortable with?
Are screenshots okay or not okay?
Establishing whats off-limits will help everyone feel more comfortable being intimate.
While technology has opened new avenues for physical intimacy, theres always a risk of someone intercepting private content.
Ambience
Consider your surroundings, suggestsDominnique Karetsos, the CEO and founder ofHealthy Pleasure Group.
She recommends setting the mood by dimming the lights or creating a playlist for the occasion.
Doing so can help create a comfortable and sexy space to get it on.
What is The Missionary Sex Position?
Tip:Kay recommends one partner perform while the other partner watches.
Write erotica for each other
Channel your inner poet, and write erotica or sexy messages to each other.
Tip:Do your research.
Consider this your permission to go out and buy (or borrow!)
some of the latest smutty romance books to get your creative juices flowing.
It also presents an opportunity to learn more about your partners turn-ons and preferences, and vice-versa.
Tip:It helps to start slow.
You and your partner could also use toys together at the same time whiletalking dirtyon the phone or sexting.
Voice-only erotic communication can be evocative in a whole different way.
Tip:Add emotion to the narrative, says sex and intimacy coachZoe Kors.
For example, how would such-and-such act or fantasy make youfeel?
Assign yourselves some sexy homework, and have each partner bring one story to the table to share.
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