A solo honeymoon, or solomoon, is an opportunity for self-discovery.
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Instead of booking a couples retreat, though, I packed my bags for a solo honeymoon in Hawaii.
Yes, you read that correctly.
When you take time to connect to yourself, you are also doing the right thing for your marriage.
travel expert, writer, and founder ofGirls Guide to the World
Its a chance to pause, reflect, and ensure youre bringing your best self into your new marriage.
Of course,solo trips for self-discoveryare nothing new.
Many travel companies even cater exclusively to solo trips for women, according to Belau.
Empowerment and personal growth.
What happens on a solo honeymoon?
My solo honeymoon to Hawaii was everything I dreamed a pre-wedding escape would be.
On Lanai, its normal to go on a long hike and not run into a single person.
After visiting, I understand why it fights to stay this way.
But my trip didnt start off completely picturesque.
travel expert, writer, and founder ofGirls Guide to the World
Immediately, I was forced to confront my flight anxiety alone.
Why couldnt I just hold my husbands hand like I normally do on flights?
I chose the latter; I remembered my coping skills.
Oh, I get anxious before flying.
This isnt new.Being alone in new situations has an incredible way of revealing our inner strengths.
Honestly, I felt pretty badass being the only person dining at a five-star hotel one night.
But the resorts clientele, myself included, arent here for the fluff.
We come for individualized coaching as part of an ultra-customized wellness experience.
My fiance is an avid mountaineer while Im a slow-flow yoga teacher.
On this trip, I took full advantage of the resorts offerings.
I opened up to Lydia about my stress levels (Why is cutting your guest list so hard?)
The next day, I was booked for a privateyin yoga classthat targets relaxation and digestion.
For the first time, I had fully tapped into a sense of self-reliance.
This solo journey proved that self-care isnt just about bubble bathsits a relationship superpower.
As someone with a track record of codependence, this was particularly transformative.
This newfound clarity has set the stage for a stronger, more fulfilling bond with my partner.
My solomoon was about introspection and connection.
I learned that personal joy and clarity come from within, not from external experiences.
I gained a deeper appreciation for myself and for the kind of partnership, I wanted to build.
The idea of solo travel for your health and the health of your relationship resonates personally with Belau.
This balance of independence and togetherness has been essential for keeping their relationship strong and vibrant, she adds.
If youre still hesitant about a solo honeymoon, Anderson suggests getting to the root of your fears.
She also advocates for using this time to explore personal interests.
Imagine visiting a modern art museum that your partner might not enjoy, says Anderson.
This is your chance to indulge in experiences that truly resonate with you.
It was a final homage to my roots before embracing the new title of wife.
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