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This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.

Well+Good: Why is taking care of your mental health important to you?

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My mental health affects every single other experience I have on this planet.

It affects my social life, my work life, my parenting, my sleep, and my appetite.

W+G: You have such a positive reputation as a bright, bubbly, talented actress.

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How does this play into your own mental health journey?

Do you ever feel a lot of pressure to live up to this perception?

KB:Oh, absolutely.

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And it was the best decision Ive ever made.

A weight off my shoulders.

W+G: What was the response that you got when you decided to be more open?

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I never thought I could, now Im gonna seek help.

And I realized how comical it was that, we, as humans hide certain aspects of ourselves.

And that inhibits people from feeling good.

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Like, that doesnt make any sense to me.

So I wanted to stay a part of the conversation.

W+G: What did it feel like to start opening up about your mental health?

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First, being more open and honest felt a little bit like cracking a glass shield around myself.

I was feeling like, Uh oh, should I do this?

What will people think of me?

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But then I decided, why do I care what people think of me?

I should care what I think about myself when I look in the mirror.

But when youre sharing stories about struggles, you feel closer to peopleand I like feeling close to people.

The first few times felt weird.

People know this about me.

Nobody stopped loving me.

And then I felt much better.

Is this part of why you decided to talk about your journey?

We share the same planet, right?

Well, this planets a fucking mess.

So Ive shared that Ive had to be intentional about getting exercise and getting out into nature.

And that was so great for me.

W+G: Did you feel any hesitation about taking that medication step?

Was there anyone that helped?

Would you ever shame someone with diabetes about taking their insulin?

Thats the comparison I needed.

I want them not to know what the word taboo means.

And that work starts with talking openly about anxiety or depression or other hard topics, like sex.

Thats why I took this partnership with Hers because I think its really important to be an example.

Its hard to overcome something when you feel theres nothing out there for you.

If you have a problem and you see no solutions, thats devastating.

So if people can feel better from my sharing, then thats worth it.

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