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Its not just specific to relationship issues, either.
(If youve never had a panic attack, the answer is: very difficult.)
Its fairly easy to step back and see a friends missteps or the errors of a co-worker.
Yet even at our best, we sometimes lack the ability to be similarly objective about our own lives.
Yet even at our best, we sometimes lack the ability to be similarly objective about our own lives.
Chicago-based psychotherapist
This should, in turn, make you better at heeding your own recommendations.
She advises noticing when youre giving advice to others that you secretly wish you could follow.
Then, as soon as possible, she recommends journalingagain, non-judgmentallyabout the issue.
Ask yourself, Why am I not following this advice in my own life?
What are my fears?'
This work should be done as objectively as possibleDr.
Manly wants you to attempt to evaluate yourself the way a researcher would, sans emotions or other baggage.
She also recommends setting simple, clear goals it’s possible for you to achieve.
This might be something as simple as, I can see that my boyfriend is rude to me.
Chicago-based psychotherapist
I will say, I deserve to be treated respectfully and walk away every time he says something unkind.
This baby-step approach is approved by Dr. Daramus as well.
When youre trying to take your own advice, take it one step at a time, she says.
Break [the advice] down into a job small enough that it feels manageable.
Then, be patient with yourself.
The transformation wont happen overnight.
Work at the goals slowly and steadily, advises Dr. Manly.
Says Dr. Manly, Congratulate yourself with every positive shift you make toward heeding your own advice.
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