Heres what different experts and self-described midsize people have to say about this controversial label.

Thehashtag #midsize has over 4.5 billion views, so its certainly being talked about a lot.

Its a hot-button topic, too.

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The ultimate problem: Who is allowed to consider themselves midsize?

Before we dive in, its important to note this is a complicated topic.

When we all have different perceptions, its nearly impossible to say theres one real definition.

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So how might an expert describe it generally?

These individuals may feel excluded from people in largerandsmaller bodies.

The tricky problem with having no real definition is when use of the descriptor midsize gets out of hand.

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Sheridan has witnessed this among friends.

She compares it to seeing more representation of people of color, but typically only ones who are light-skinned.

Its also just generally fruitless.

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We must also ask the critical question of why someone is posting those details in the first place.

Is it for validation?

To have someone say something nice?

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To receive a different response from what is experienced in person?

Its Amazing How Its All Connected.

This issue pops up in clothing stores, too, asmany plus-size items are made for hourglass-shaped bodies.

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This isrooted in the fact that we still live in a society where diverse bodies arent celebrated or respected.

This emphasizes how the term midsize can be hurtful.

Can midsize people still have thin privilege?

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ICYMI, thin privilege refers to theunearned advantages people of a smaller size have.)

There is no doubt privilege in having bodies that society designs and caters to.

However, no one looking at me would ever call me skinny.

Ultimately, theres a lot of gray area.

Where do we go next?

With many various (and valid!)

viewpoints, its hard to have a definitive, right opinion.

Given that, how can we navigate the conversation in a helpful way with loved ones?

Nisbet suggests flipping the script, being objective, and considering the circumstances.

It is an uphill battle to argue someones identity with them, she adds.

Sheridan urges continuing to fight for inclusivity.

), and educating family and doctors about anti-fat bias, to start.

Its the society that envelops our day-to-day that tells us that beauty and our bodies are not good enough.

Instead, the conflict is between all of us against a system that would weigh our value as people.

Lastly, continue the hard fight of body liberation for all.

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