I didnt starve myself, butI was so strict.

What is ambition sizing?

While caloric intake is generally slashed, movement and exercise may also be dialed up.

alt

Meanwhile, the goal clothes that hang in the closet motivate the person to stick with these unhealthy behaviors.

A postpartum person might feel uneasy about not fitting into their pre-pregnancy clothes, for example.

Whats more, dieting simply isnt sustainable.

Broth in Bowl on gray background, healthy food, top view.

founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and editor-in-chief of Heart Hackers Club, an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust, and desire

While youre reducing your caloric intake, you may also deal with increased thoughts about and anxiety around food.

I always like to say that a malnourished brain is an anxious brain, says Chan.

[When] youre really hungry, your body sees everything as a stressor, she notes.

Close-up of sliced purple cabbage,

I always like to say that a malnourished brain is an anxious brain, says Chan.

Ambition sizing for a special event comes with its own set of consequences.

But you dont need to personally practice ambition sizing to feel its effects.

soba noodles

Even if it didnt directly impact your diet, it may affect how you think about your body.

One simple first step?

Change your worldview, says Chan.

A hand is stirring a sourdough starter in a glass jar, on a kitchen countertop. The light casts a warm glow, highlighting the ingredients inside the jar.

founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and editor-in-chief of Heart Hackers Club, an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust, and desire

However, the most impactful practices to nip ambition sizing in the bud involve some serious introspection.

Then, make strides to nix those practices from your routine.

Say you weigh yourself a couple of times a week.

Frozen beef steaks on brownish packaging paper. Light effect.

Then, try them on without looking at the number on the tag or in the mirror.

Focusing your mind on how comfortable you feelnot the sizecan help minimize the pressure to be smaller.

Above all, show yourself compassion.

Woman shopping in a grocery store with a basket

Recognize that youre not alone in facing these pressures, says Donley.

Got it, you’ve been added to our email list.