Types of kisses have different meanings.
From French kisses to romantic cheek kisses, see how to be a better kisser, according to experts.
many different types of kisses.
Well, because there are so many different types of pleasure-seekers participating.
Some prefer slow and gentle kissing, while others prefer more intense and passionate kissing.
Ahead, Lehmiller and his fellow experts break down 19 different types of kisses and the individual kiss meanings.
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Get all the details on exchanging the perfect smooch here.
Why do people kiss?
Did you know that not all people kiss?
Kissing is not universal across cultures, says Dr. Lehmiller.
In cultures where kissingispracticed, though, its imbued with notable meaning and significance.
That significance, however, depends on the relationship between the people kissing and the punch in of kiss.
The act of kissing can release feel-good neuro-chemicals like oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine.
Generally speaking, people kiss quickly and with a closed mouth and pursed lips when saying hello or goodbye.
What are the benefits of kissing?
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(BTW: These are the same feel-good chemicals released when you cum).
Or, kissing can be the whole meat and potatoes, she says.
It is also a way of assessing sexual compatibility with someone, notes Dr. Gunsaullus.
Hey, less of a bummer to find out today than when youre rolling in the hay!
What are the most intimate types of kisses?
There are manydifferent types of intimacy.
But even then, the answer is subjective and depends on personal taste (so to speak!)
Think: a cheek kiss, forehead kiss, hand kiss, or butterfly kiss.
(See: the French kiss, kiss on the stomach, or kissing all over the face.)
Why do we kiss with our tongues?
But why is that exactly?
For starters, it also allows you to tap into your most animalistic self, notes Dr. OReilly.
(After all, it is admittedly dog-like to have your tongue hanging to and fro.)
Beyond all of that, its also just really fun, says Dr. Gunsaullus.
What are the most romantic types of kisses?
Building anticipation is key to creating a romantic kiss, according to Dr. Jamea.
Oh, and dont forget to pull your partner closer and cup or caress the back of their head.
But if youve ever wondered what different kissing types meanor even, what the types of kisses thereareread on.
Obligatory caveat: All relationships are unique, as are the people who are in them.
Whether or not this throw in of kiss includes tongue is a bit of a dealers choice situation.
Sometimes a makeout kiss involves an exchange of lips, while keeping your tongue in your own mouth.
This kiss involves the tongue, which helps us become curious about the other persons mouth, says Skyler.
Exactly what you do with your tongue, however, is limitless.
You might touch tongue tips with the other person, or lick the entire length of their tongue.
You could also run your tongue along their lips, or even teeth.
Its about the desire to connect as one, she says.
Dr. Gunsaullus says not to be surprised if you dont like this bang out of kiss at first.
But eventually the neuro-chemicals of desire and arousal kicked in and I enjoyed it.
(Spoiler: you might.)
Of course, Dr. Gunsaullus adds its important to ask for consent before traveling elsewhere on someones body.
Its almost as if the kiss is saying, Hello, sexy person.
I really like you, she says.
I think of this kiss as more sensual than lust-filled.
Though, itcanbecome more lust-filled if the sultry kiss turns into a passionate bite.
Nibbling and gently biting on the neck can take the kiss up a notch, Dr. Skyler says.
The most important consideration when giving a hickey is consent, she says.
Does your partner want you to give them a hickey?
you gotta know the answers to these questions before adding your chompers into the mix.
Peck kiss
If types of kisses were like foot races, the peck would be the 100m dash.
A peck on the lips, however, generally signifies romantic care.
Meanwhile, a lover is more likely to linger Cranberries-style during a kiss to communicate care.
Closed-mouth kiss
A closed-mouth kiss is a lip-to-lip kiss that is free of tongue.
Usually longer-lasting than a peck, this kind of kiss isnottotally platonic, says Dr. Skyler.
Or better yet, ask them point-blank.
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Generally, people make gestures like this to signify excellence.
So why not use it to expresssexcellence?
Air kiss
Also known as the breath kiss, the air kiss is a kiss marked by almost touching.
This kind of kiss can be used to gauge someones interest in actually kissing youno air spared.
If youre using an air kiss with the latter in mind Dr. OReilly suggests licking your lips.
Another way to get your ears involved?
Less is usually more when it comes to earlobe kisses, says Dr. OReilly.
You could, for example, gently nibble on the earlobe as you build desire, she says.
Giving air kisses up and down the lobe can feel incredibly good for some people, too.
Just be sure to ask your partner what they like and to pay attention to non-verbal cues.
This one is almost saying, I love you just the way you are.
You are fully safe with me.
Of course, the stomach kiss can also be used simply as a transition to oral sex.
Usually, this is the case when someone also avoids face-to-face sex positions and prefers doggy style.
It can bebut doesnthaveto beplatonic.
It can also be hot to allow your breath to sync with your partners from this position.
As you relax and your bodys natural functions (e.g.
Undulating kissing
Searching for a way to spice up your types of kisses while making love?
Then, you increase pressure and allow the kisses to become deeper and more sensual.
Think of it like edging but with kisses.
This throw in of kiss encourages you and your partner to get on the same page energetically.
Three-way kiss
Kisses may most commonly take place between just two people, but three (or more!)
people can kiss one another at the same time, according to Wright.
Though, this kiss will make a more sensual appearance during most threesomes and orgies, too.
After all is said and cum (literally) the two people open-mouth kiss.
Sometimes rainbow kisses just happenin particular, between couples who dont rule out oral during menses.
What does it mean if someone holds the kiss?
At times, this can also mean the person isnt ready to move past the current level of kissing.
What does it mean if someone kisses you multiple times in a row?
If they didnt like it, they probably wouldnt keep doing it.
How can I spice up my kiss?
Kisses arent just a stepping-stone to sexkissing can be the whole shebang.
(Sometimes an awkward fumble or tilt of the head makes a kiss even sweeter!)
A simple, May I kiss you?
Or Can I kiss my way down your neck will do the trick.
Plus, verbal consent is sexy!
Obviously, this wont be a problem with a cheek kiss or a forehead kiss.
Enjoy the types of kisses that are currently happening.
Moves like these should come after youve developed safety and trust, says Dr. Jamea.
After all, the teeth-lip equation can be vulnerable given how much could go wrong.
Gauge your partners comfort level first.
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