allows little room for nuancebut as you may rightfully suspect, most peoples personalities contain multitudes.

We know that some people fall in the middle of the extrovert-introvert spectrum asambiverts.

Enter the outgoing introvert, which may seem like an oxymoron but is actually not, according to psychologists.

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For the outgoing introvert, its like a switch flips on when they arrive at the party.

Being the center of attention can actually bring their personable side to the surface, and theyll really shine.

Being the center of attention can actually bring their personable side to the surface, and theyll really shine.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

clinical psychologist, life fulfillment expert, and author ofDate Smart,Joy From Fear, andAging Joyfully

Still trying to figure out where you land on the introvert spectrum?

Keep reading to learn the most common signs of being an outgoing introvert.

Signs youre an outgoing introvert

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Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

While you feel confident connecting with others, you also find alone time rewarding.

Toany kind of introvert, spending a good amount of time solo is a restorative and very necessary activity.

Instead, youll gain fulfillment and satisfaction from pursuits of an individualistic nature.

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You feel a rush of adrenaline in social settingsand then totally exhausted afterward.

As it reaches its expiration point, the tiredness hits you all at once.

Theyll feel like their job has been doneand done welland now theyre ready to go home and be alone.

Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

clinical psychologist, life fulfillment expert, and author ofDate Smart,Joy From Fear, andAging Joyfully

Your desire to be social is always dependent on your current energy level.

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