Looking to have an even more pleasurable experience giving oral?
Here’s what experts recommend.
The real key to a blowjob thats, well, mind-blowing?
Staying present and having a good time.
Ahead, sex experts share their biggest tips for maximizing your and your partners pleasure during a blowjob.
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And remember to take breaths!
4.Have fun!
Although job might be in its name, a blowjob shouldnt feel like work.
Have fun while youre going down on your partner, says Needle.
Doing so helps relieve tongue and jaw fatigue, Howard says.
6.Take your time
Newsflash: Faster isnt always the way to go.
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But it can be hard for some givers to perform oral sex without their teeth getting in the way.
Because its so cold, youll feel it against your teeth, she notes.
8.Try out different motions and techniques
In addition to in-and-out thrusting motions, experiment with other techniques.
Any kind of variety is going to keep it exciting, says Needle.
11.Raise the roof
As in, the roof of your mouth.
Howard recommends using the head of the penis to caress the entire roof of your mouth.
12.Maintain eye contact
A blowjob is an intimate experience!
And eye contact during any kind of sex, from missionary to oral, can enhance intimacy.
What is The Missionary Sex Position?
The tip of the tongue.
you’re able to also hum against their penis, which can provide a pleasurable, vibration-like sensation.
Licking this area can also add an unexpected and pleasurable twist to your blowjob.
Releasing any jaw tension could also lead to more comfort.
19.Test out some flavored lubes
Lets be real: Who doesnt love flavored things?
Novelty aside, flavored lubes are a great way to spice things upandmake things more slippery when giving blowjobs.
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you’re able to also try wearing ahands-free vibratorso thatyouexperience some toe-curling sensations, too.
Needle recommends lying on your side, similar to a classic 69 position, for decrease neck pain.
Other givers might find it more comfortable to kneel down in front of their receiving partner.
This could amp up passion and a sense of intimacy, she adds.
But many receivers might enjoy the sensation of having their prostate stimulated via a perineum massage, says Needle.
24.Experiment with temperature play
Ready to make things hotter?
(Or, well… Add a little temperature play into your blowjob.
Using a warm towel or an ice cube can switch up the sensations your partner feels, says Needle.
Using a blindfold cuts off sight, which heightens other senses, says Needle.
The receiver can gently again, with consent guide the givers head.
(Just remember that its particularly important to practiceaftercareafter any kind of kink experience!)
Put yourself in charge.
The giver can tease by stopping [the blowjob] and making the receiver beg, suggests Needle.
But if you and your partner enjoy bondage, you might add that to your blowjob, too.
Try tying the givers hands or the receivers hands behind their back, says Needle.
It can make the experience feel more focused.
What should I know about deep throating during a blowjob?
Is it possible to get STIs from giving blowjobs?
Even non penetrative sex acts come with their own risk.
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